While we had lots of plans for helping people become actively involved in our community, we also knew that there was one area in which we were lacking: social inclusion for those with dementia, respite so that the full-time caregiver might enjoy a reprieve. Thus Respite Retreat came to fruition.
I had thought and pondered and asked about places to hold this for several years, but was struck not only by the overwhelming task of it all but also finding a place willing to host us. Both the hospital and senior center were open for meetings but they feared the liability that the day care scheme might create. I never could quite understand their fear as anyone of any age and any cognitive level can trip or fall or get scraped. Liability is not isolated to someone with dementia.
At last, after a wonderful conversation with the director of the local Boys and Girls Club, we found a home. Twice a month for two hours caregivers can drop off a loved one knowing that kind and tender caregivers will offer a good time. One of the best surprises in the planning came from the positive reception of our local RSVP (Retired Seniors Volunteer Program). Not only were several members willing to help, they actually arrived. Those of you who have planned and counted on others only to be disappointed know exactly what I mean.
For two hours, loved ones play games, sing, create crafts, chat, and flourish. Those in charge for the day have just as much fun as the one being cared for and we all leave enriched. After filling out minimal paperwork, the caregiver is free to run errands, take a walk, or go shopping, but it seems most like to dash away and return quickly so that they too can join the project and conversation of the day. Respite Retreat has been so rewarding.
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